Men’s Mental Health: A Closer Look at 5 Common Issues

Nov 06, 2019

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On the cusp of 2020, few would argue we’ve made progress with mental health. We live in a progressive era where people are more inclined to talk about this admittedly challenging subject. Still, many of us have struggled to move on from the stereotypes which have stunted us for so long.

a myth we see time and time again – that men are somehow impervious to mental
health issues. They’re stronger than depression or anxiety. They’re somehow above
the long list of disorders that affect millions of people every day. If they’re
not, they should be. They’re supposed to be.

dangerous mindset is persistent, even with the strides we’ve made in the past
few decades. Of course, the belief that men don’t experience mental health
issues – or should “tough it out” – is absurd. Men experience the same
challenges as women, and some conditions are even more prevalent among males.

why does this backwards logic continue to exist? Here are a few reasons.

1. Division Through Toxic Masculinity

term “toxic masculinity” describes a broader condition and
encompasses several of the factors included in this list. It’s a term that
makes a lot of sense, but it’s often challenging to describe.

According to The Good Men
it’s “a narrow and repressive description of manhood, designating manhood
as defined by violence, sex, status and aggression. It’s the cultural ideal of
manliness, where strength is everything while emotions are a weakness; where
sex and brutality are yardsticks by which men are measured, while supposedly
feminine traits — which can range from emotional vulnerability to simply not
being hypersexual — are the means by which your status as ‘man’ can be taken

probably seen examples of toxic masculinity expressed in fraternal hazing or
the mistreatment of women by men you’ve known. It could also present as gender-wide
negligence to acknowledge what a serious issue men’s mental health is.

do you combat this toxicity? It’s vital to understand that men’s mental health issues
are real, and they have significant
consequences if untreated
. Men who experience them need encouragement to speak out and learn how
being vulnerable can lead to a healthier mental state and a better quality of

2. The “I’ll Deal With It Myself”

is highly valued in our society, particularly among men. It’s a gender norm that
developed before we understood mental health and the repercussions of
negligence. This “I’ll deal with it myself” mentality is still an issue today.

a result, many American men fall victim to
shrinking social circles
and a lack of emotional support when things get difficult. They
believe that, as a man, they should be able to address a problem on their own. Anything
less than a total display of independence is a sign of weakness.

This is far from the truth, of course. Even if you can overcome an issue without outside help, doesn’t mean you shouldn’t ask for it. Unfortunately, asking for help is often seen as frailty.

Man sitting outside on a bench.

3. A Sense of Pride From Hardship

from the perspective of gender norms, the way that men and women view
challenges — specifically with mental health — is often different. Men are
sometimes seen as more solution-oriented while women need time to experience
and process things.

said, women are less discouraged from asking for help. In male circles, there’s
a certain glamour ascribed to “dealing with it.” That phrase comes up again and
again. The “deal with it” mindset is a recurring problem.

result of this, as you may have observed in a friend or loved one, is that men
take pride in enduring
Instead of practicing this type of behavior, they should recognize an unhealthy
pattern and seek to resolve it.

4. Men Downplay Their Symptoms

you’ve spent time around people who struggle with mental health, you’ve probably
seen what it looks like when someone downplays their symptoms. Men and women
alike feel hesitant to burden their friends and family with their problems.
Mental health issues can manifest in more subtle ways than physical conditions.

in a deep depression who is uncomfortable being vulnerable might appear quiet.
Someone who’s suffering from tremendous social anxiety might make up a reason
not to come out. This is why it’s important for you
to ask questions
and prompt your friends to share if you suspect something is wrong.

5. We Don’t Realize How Common These Issues Are

factors we’ve already cited are exacerbated by a condition that affects all
Americans, male or female. That is, we don’t realize that one in five
American adults
experience a mental health issue every year.

with their stoic attitude and smaller social circle, are less likely to
understand how under-reported these conditions are. All this only contributes
to the habits of internalizing and marginalizing issues that can be fatal when
left untreated.

no overstatement to say that anyone would benefit from working with a mental
health professional to better understand their own condition. Rather than
having a reactive attitude toward mental health, we should have a proactive

who don’t receive a clinical diagnosis can still benefit from identifying
correctable habits, getting some perspective on their internal monologue and
just being heard out in a safe space.

Get the Help You Need

The path to a better future for men’s mental health is not so different from that for women. It starts with a conversation. What do you want to say?


Jack Shaw is a senior writer at Modded. Jack is an avid enthusiast for keeping up with personal health and enjoying nature. He has over five years of experience writing in the men's lifestyle niche, and has written extensively on topics of fitness, exploring the outdoors and men's interests. His writings have been featured in SportsEd TV, Love Inc., and Offroad Xtreme among many more publications.